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Assuming as a sub
About D/s
Why a Slave should Obey
Arrogance
Lessons *COMING SOON*
50 Rules of Enslavement
10 Commandments for Consorts
10 Ways to Lose your Mistress
My BDSM Philosophy
To some people, the BDSM lifestyle may seem
to be a fantasy or myth, but the truth is it's quite the
opposite. BDSM DOES exist, and many people live the
lifestyle both openly in their daily lives, and/or behind
doors, or even on line. A lot of the BDSM online
scenarios provide adults with entertainment such as soft
or hardcore porn; however, that is not what this site is
for or about. There are a lot of Dommes that will show
you some skin for payment, so if you are in search of
that type of entertainment, keep looking and good luck in
your travels. Of course, we aren't opposed to porn and may,
from time to time, even provide you with a few links that
may lead you in the right direction.
My views on BDSM form within my heart and bring into play
the compassion and desires needed to help enrich
individuals in their lives, possibly making them
healthier and more content in the process. The bond
formed between a Dominant and a submissive/slave is a
uniquely intimate and intriguing bond. The bond is only
between those two. Although others can share in the
impressions easily, if allowed by the Dominant Role, that
original true bond is still the most formidible. In this
world, each slave and submissive will have their one true
matching Domina (yin for yang). slave/sub's do not have
more than one, and the search for this One will at times
cause many distraught-filled months/years of life
searching as they try to fill this void in their lives.
Many never understand what this void is, struggling to
put into words what it is they feel. They substitute
other vices for this deep need to serve, all in a vain
attempt to end the yearning and frustration.
Because of today's society, and how people choose to
live, they have to make hard choices to submit themselves
to a lifestyle as a submissive/slave or, On the other
side, for a Domina to make the commitment to take the
place of guiding their wards. For the sake of argument, I
will just say that a Domme knows who belongs to them at
first impression, but the sub/slave's gift can never be
just taken. It must be earned and given freely. We as
Domina do not possess anything that will allow us to
capture that gift, but once it is given, a slave is
totally committed to its owner in all capacities. A
submissive, while still "free" needs the
guidance of the Domina to help them through their lives.
In either case, they will both feel the fulfillment and
completeness of relinquishing that control, finally
filling the void that tore at the very roots of their
souls.
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